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Member since: 07/23/06
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Couple Him: Straight
Her: Bi

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He:  45   6'0   192
She: 45   5'4   115
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Interest Levels
Tame 2 on a scale of 0-4     Couples 4 on a scale of 0-4
Moderate 4 on a scale of 0-4     Males 4 on a scale of 0-4
Wild 4 on a scale of 0-4     Females 4 on a scale of 0-4
Desired Age Range
23 to 52
Other Info
  • Drinkers OK
  • No Smokers
    Now Accepting Applications ;-)

    Short Tag Line:
    Now Accepting Applications ;-)

    I/We are looking for
    ***Single Males*** We are not interested in you ... Do not IM or Email us .... We are seeking an attractive couple (We Definitely prefer married) with a sense of humor, who love to laugh, And dance there asses off. Someone who we could hang out with and if all goes well, become friends with benefits ;-) We feel that this will only enhance the possible sexual relationship with those people. If you are only into Girl/Girl play, then we are probably not for you, as we are a "Full Participation couple" but also have enjoyed a Soft Swap Situation to start things off and see what may develop in the Future ;-). She likes the touch and kiss of a beautiful woman(who doesn't), but she definitely loves men. *** Very important!! *** If your into Drama and have a million rules, please pass us by, we have seen so much jealousy & insecurity by couples who have a partner who displays these traits. Did we mention we'd love to find a Unicorn for a long-term friendship, who we could hang out with occasionally, who we would treat like a lady and spoil her rotten, interested ? Someone once told us, "swinging" is not for everyone, only people who are secure and confident in their relationship.
    We also like people who know how to spell, (Ok we are lowering our standards), people who can spell 1/2 way decent.... ;D.... LOL

    Describe Yourself:
    We consider ourselves to be somewhat of an upscale couple, though not snotty, who value Quality versus Quantity. In other words we are very "Selective" We also feel we are very Socially fun to hang with, love to throw, big parties and when we have time go to parties, where we can flirt like crazy and then the dirty dancing begins (and ladies he can dance ;-), which hopefully leads to lots of wild kissing with a hot couple, that we can get lost in them and get to know, much better (WHOA!!!!;0)))). We also "LOVE" when the occasion or opportunity may arise to have People over to our House to Entertain, them both inside and outside of the Bedroom and we really enjoy having a couple or Two over for a Sexy Dip in the Hot Tub ~lol~ Did we mention we love to be invited over to a Sexy couples House and be entertained ;-) We feel that the chase is almost as fun as the catch. We both feel we are in very good shape, as we work out 3-5 a week.....We Spin or Bike 30-40 miles per week. We are not perfect,(And we are not unattractive :-), but we Believe in taking care of our Bodies and we'd love to take care of Yours TOOO ;-) We have 2 kids and a life, this is only a small part of it...Please if you email us and say "let's get together" then either follow up, but don't just blow us off. At least be polite and say "we are not Interested". We will always "try" reply to a interested party, whether we are interested or not. We might not be perfect, but will never leave you hanging...We really hate when people come on strong and then for no reason, just totally ignore us and our emails, anyone who does that is totally rude and does not deserve to be on here,(you are classified in our book as "Head Cases"). OMG!!! If you IM us and and then say What's Up ? We will Probabaly Reply, Nothing you IM'd Us ? Please have something intelligent to say...We know why were here, Do You ? We really cannot stand mean, stuck up people, please pass us Bye. We have no problem with chatting with other people, regardless of age or body size,or amount of body hair...lol... but we most likely will not meet or have sex with you, Sorry we know what we want. We believe our time and effort are valuable, limited and worth something special, that perks our interest.
    ***CERTS***Our feeling on certs are, they serve as way of saying something nice about you or us. They do not always mean we have had sex with them and may just be friends we have met along our Journey. We also respect couples we may have met and played with but do not give certs or receive them. If you go out and meet people you will understand this concept. we believe if you connect with a couple, then treat them like gold and spoil them "Rotten", you never may meet another couple like them ever again.....

    Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
    If we become comfortable and get to know people, who we are attracted to, then we are and have been open to trying anything that is fun, We definitely prefer "Full Swap Couples", but soft swap couples can be fun also. We have been lucky to become comfortable with a few sincere couples, who have been willing to take there time with getting to know us. The people who have done this, will tell ya that we all had a great time, where everyone was comfortable and no one felt awkward, Also Please don't be so serious and uptight...Here to have some fun....We definitely prefer genuine and sincere people, who realize how much fun this can be, and not just in a Hurry to Try and "SCREW US" We feel we are worth the Wait & effort ;-) OH Yeah, Almost forgot to tell ya Unicorns do exist !!! (We have petted a few ;-))) ****SMILE****

    What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
    *****We run one of the Best & Biggest party groups in New England!!!!! Check us out in the groups section we are "Club4play" or on our Cool Website: Club4playparties.com Our Events are Geared towards Couples & Single Ladies ******Please, we took a long break from here, because there were a lot of fakes, who only want to email back and forth and collect pics!!! We also have met our share of flakes who after having a great time by all, just disappeared into the Abyss (Really ;-) But the biggest turnoff is the guy posing as a couple, who wants to swap pics (GET A LIFE). We don't want to hear, "she lets me play alone". We are "4real", Hence our name. We Really do love to go to parties hosted by us (CLUB4PLAY ;-), SatinSheetDreams, Deviate8 Events, ShareNation. We have also gone on a few "Hot Dates" to Leisure Time. We are also VIP Members at "Desire" & Pearl Desire resorts in Mexico, where we have experienced a few incredible "Adventures", where we have met a lot of very nice and sexy couples. We have never felt so free and totally Sexually relaxed...OMG!!!(Ask Us) We could only imagine being there with a "Hot N Sexy" couple for a week, Wanna CUM ?? (Whoa ;-0). We def plan to attend more parties in the future. We feel that by attending NSA, stress free big party events, this where we have and can continue to meet real people, who want to go on a few adventures And live out ours and their fantasies. We feel that Blind dates rarely work, but we have had 1 or 2 good ones ;D, ya never know, impress us...See where it may lead? **** PLEASE NOTE*** No BBW's, or guys with guts or "MAN BOOBS", this is also for wife and not just husband. Sorry we know what we like. Please note that we have face pics of both of us on here and they are very recent. Be prepared to have the same or able to email us a few, If we are int, we will gladly return the favor. Sorry for those, who say can't post any pics here because of "Discretion" or fear of detection. Bad excuse as this site has a prvt section for which you can control for, who does and does not see you. Also if you are truly int and we all are in agreement with a 4-Way mutual attraction then, be prepared to give out a phone # for the ladies to chat, just to prove there is a real woman,(then let the FUN begin!!!). In closing, we hope you found our profile fun and informative. We hope it made ya "Smile" and realize, we are here to have fun and hopefully find a match where all can let go and explore, we realize not everyone will find us attractive and the same is true for us... Just Have the "BALLS" to respond Truthfully :-)


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